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Love Your Villain Podcast

Love Your Villain Podcast

Hosted by: Ila Casselman

Love Your Villain is the raw, unfiltered podcast that helps you stop running from your shadow—and start loving it. The jealousy, the rage, the insecurity, the shame… They’re not your flaws. They’re your...

Episodes

Exploring Your Inner Villain with Book Editor Tina Overbury

Season #1 Episode #10

We’re ending the season with a powerful reflection on writing, healing, and shadow work. 🖤Tina Overbury (@tinaolife), the editor of my book 'Love Your Villain', joins me to talk about the emotional layers behind the...
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Sexy Villain

Season #1 Episode #9

This week on #LoveYourVillain, we’re diving into the parts of ourselves we’ve been told to hide, the ones driven by pleasure, curiosity, and desire.💗 In this unfiltered episode, Simone joins me for an intimate...
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How Emotional Literacy Can Change Your Life

Season #1 Episode #8

Episode 8 - How Emotional Literacy Can Change Your Life is out now.   We’re taught to chase good vibes and fear bad ones but what if all emotions had value?   In this solo episode, I unpack how emotional literacy can...
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#7: Addiction

Season #1

Ep 7: Addiction with guest Arthur Lee   Addiction is about pain, disconnection, and the need to numb yourself when emotions feel too heavy to carry.   Arthur joins me to talk honestly about his journey through...
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It's Emotional

Season #1 Episode #6

No one ever handed us a map for how to feel. Many of us grew up around emotional avoidance, passed-down trauma, and parents who didn’t know how to process their own pain, so they made us responsible for it.In this...
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Where Healing Really Begins

Season #1 Episode #5

🎙️Coming up on #LoveYourVillain is Ep 5: Where Healing Really Begins with Moriah GonidisWe’re talking about what healing actually looks like at the start: messy, raw, and real.Moriah shares how she began facing her...
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Why We Love the Way We Do: Anxious & Avoidant Attachment Trap

Season #1 Episode #4

Is your Villain Anxious, Avoidant or both? In this episode of Love Your Villain, we're diving into the attachment trap. I get personal about my own anxious-avoidant attachment:How they can play out in a relationships....
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Emotional Capacity & Availability

Season #1 Episode #3

Emotional Availability with @bebhinnpidgeon   In this episode, Bebhinn Pidgeon, RTC and founder of @evolvecreativetherapy, shares how expressive arts, nervous system work, and self-reflection can help us soften our...
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A Villain Begins

Season #1 Episode #2

A Villain Begins talks about the origin and development of the Villain AKA the shadow side of our personality. The unconscious version of us we were taught as babies to suppress for fear of not being loved or liked by...
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How IMPOSTER SYNDROME can Creep in to your Mindset & Sabotage your Goals

Season #1 Episode #1

🎙How Imposter Syndrome Creeps Into Your Mindset and Sabotages Your Dreams. Episode One. Ever felt like a fraud in your own life? Like you're just one mistake away from being "found out"? That quiet voice whispering...
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